Overcoming the "I'm Not Doing Enough" Trap: How to Reconnect, Reframe, and Thrive
I want to share a real-life situation that might resonate with many of you—CEOs, business owners, and leaders.
Last week, I spoke with a business owner in Chicago who felt like he wasn’t doing enough to bring in money. That belief triggered stress, anxiety, and a sense of being stuck.
I asked him:
“Is it absolutely true you’re not doing enough?”
After pausing, he realized this thought was creating unnecessary stress and limiting his progress. When we buy into thoughts like “I’m not enough” or “I need to do more,” we get overwhelmed, anxious, and frustrated.
To shift, I invited him to explore the opposite:
What if you are doing enough?
What’s already working?
He listed his progress, appreciated what he does have, and reconnected to the present moment. This shift brought clarity, calm, and new energy for growth.
If you’re feeling stuck, try this:
Pause and breathe. Ask yourself: “What’s working right now?”
List what you’re creating and appreciating.
Listen to your heart. Where does it want to lead you today?
Your business thrives on relationships—starting with how you relate to yourself. When you believe you are enough and have enough, people are naturally drawn to your confidence and energy.
If this resonates, I’d love to support you further. I’m offering a 10-day experiment to help leaders like you experience quick wins. At the end of the 10 days, we’ll celebrate your progress with a 30-minute call.
Your next step: I invite you to book a 15-minute discovery call with me to explore moving forward with more ease, joy, and success.
You are the gift—never forget that.
Xxoo
Debra